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General Discussion / Re: New to thongs. Need guidance
« on: April 05, 2021, 01:10:10 PM »
Updating the thread with recent progress.

Well, the progress has been great so far. I am wearing thongs almost everyday. For 3-4 days a week, I am wearing it throughout the day. During other days, I had to switch to briefs in the middle of the day because of uneasiness in the butt crack. I think it wil go away as well.

I am truly loving the feel of thong underwear (or rather the feel that I am not wearing anything). It's super comfortable for my jewels and I almost forget that I have a string in my cheeks. I even slept wearing these without any problems. With briefs, it used to be uncomfortable while waking up in the morning (you know what I mean). But with thongs, the lack of tight waistband is a boon.

Another positive of my thong wearing is something that I hadn't expected. Once I started wearing thongs, my gf has also ditched her bikini undies completely for thongs. And somehow, this has positively impacted our physical relationship.

This week I am planning to buy few more and hopefully thongs will displace briefs to become the dominant style in my drawer.

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General Discussion / Re: Feeling unique
« on: April 05, 2021, 12:41:30 PM »
Interesting topic! I would be more than happy if men thongs become socially accepted as well as "one of the popular men's underwear types".

Definitely the first step would be for thongs to become socially acceptable. Big brands need to take that initiative.

Any premium/luxury brand (Versace, Dolce Gabbana, et al) would first need to showcase mens thongs in major fashion shows.

Then, may be, Armani coming up with "Skimpy" underwear collection for men. You can't just market thongs. There has to be a gradual progression. So, Skimpy collection would focus on 'sexy and comfortable' designs. Educating how pouches and skimpy coverage bring best of both worlds (sexy and comfortable). Comfort should be the key in the marketing campaigns.

Digital/print ads could focus on male celebrity wearing low coverage bikini undie such as 3/4 back coverage with decent pouch.

That's how the Skimpy collection would look:
3/4 back coverage, 2/3 back, 1/2 back, and then Thong
These would be available with different pouch sizes and with thin or no waistband.

In a nutshell, a big brands focus on 'comfortable yet sexy' and celebrity endorsement could just make it happen.

Oh. I guess I am being carried away and getting too demanding. 

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General Discussion / Re: New to thongs. Need guidance
« on: March 28, 2021, 11:27:05 AM »
Thanks. Squatting after wearing the thong worked I guess. Or, Olaf Benz is awesome. I wore it for around 8-10 hours without adjusting a thing! The comfort while I was wearing it was beyond my imagination. My jewels must be thanking me for this switch. They were literally squished for most of their life with those flat front briefs.

Yesterday afternoon, gf came over. I modelled all pairs for her. She liked them all and said "wow" to some colors. I also got a fabric tip from her - ikingsky ones are made of modal fabric, which turns out to be her fav undie fabric as well. And most of her thongs (CK, Tommy) are modal ones. Looking at all the colors, she said "now you can also wear matching T-shirts and thongs like me" :D

Coming back to Olaf Benz thong, I had to remove it in the middle of the night, as I felt slight uncomfortable. I am suspecting it could be due to hair. May be few more days and I would be wearing it again after waking up in the morning. Few more days, and I will be wearing it for the whole day. Fingers crossed.

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Reviews / Re: Ace + Indigo Thongs
« on: March 27, 2021, 12:28:39 PM »
Thanks for sharing. These look great and comfortable for daily wear.

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I am the odd one out here. I mostly wear shorts in the pool. Sometimes I wear swim trunks.

More power to you guys for wearing thong swimsuits.

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I agree that underwear is a very personal thing. But, I do change clothes in front of my friends, when I am on a trip with them. They would definitely spot it. During family visits, they would see it on the drying rack. I often open the door in my undies when it's a Amazon or food delivery.

So, just because people have such strong opinions on men thongs, I have to keep it a secret. Why thongs have to be a secret, but not briefs or trunks? I understand if it's women's thongs. For god's sake, a man wearing men's underwear should not be strange or odd!

May be, if men thongs starts featuring in fashion shows, digital commercials for popular brands (say, Armani or CK), then people will stop having such strong negative opinions.

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General Discussion / Re: New to thongs. Need guidance
« on: March 27, 2021, 11:18:14 AM »
Thank you both.

So my experience with ikingsky yesterday was great. First time I wore a thong continuously for 4-5 hours! I had to take it off as I felt a bit uneasy in the back. I think it will take few days to get used to. 4-5 hours in one go is great! In these 5 hours, I didn't once adjust the front or the back strap.

Regarding uneasyness in the butt crack, I am not sure if I am wearing it correctly. Do you guys put the back strap deep into the crack?

Today I am wearing Olaf Benz thong. Been 4 hours and feels like I am not wearing anything. I squatted after wearing it, I think it might be the right way to adjust the back strap.

Meeting my gf in some time. Will model all these new pairs :)

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General Discussion / Re: New to thongs. Need guidance
« on: March 26, 2021, 01:02:56 PM »
So, the package arrived few minutes ago. I would say the initial feedback is positive so far!

Bruno Banani

The fabric feels good and premium. After wearing it, it felt more like a swimwear. The front is very tight. There is literally no space in front, and the back string is going too deep. Overall, disappointed. Not something I was looking for.

Olaf Benz

This one's thin and soft. I was hopeful. After wearing, I felt good. The space in front is optimal, and the back string feel good too. Yeah!

ikingsky

Now, this one's a winner! Amazingly soft fabric. I just fell in love with how it supported my stuff without squishing it, and how the back string disappeared in my cheeks. Doesn't look as premium as Olaf Benz, but is super comfy. I am glad there are 6 of these! I am excited to show all 8 pairs to my gf.

As I am writing this, I am wearing the black ikingsky. I can't thank you guys enough for the suggestions. I think I could wear ikingsky and Olaf Benz as daily underwear. I have never felt so comfortable in an underwear ever in my life.

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Questions and Opinions / How do people perceive men wearing thongs?
« on: March 26, 2021, 03:28:01 AM »
Call me ignorant, but I personally don't have any opinion on what other people wear as their underwear. Just like I don't have opinion on people who prefer wearing shorts vs full length joggers or round neck T-shirts Vs Polo t-shirts, or sneakers vs casual shoes. Only slight opinion I would have about someone wearing different types of underwear:

Boxers: He must be liking the freedom down there
Briefs: I think he likes support down there
Boxer briefs: I think he goes with the fashion trends
Bikini briefs: Likes support and wants to look good
Thongs: Likes support and freedom, and must be confident about his body

Now, I am a recent thong convert (still in progress). When I read few posts on some other forums, I was surprised to know that people/society have so strong negative opinions about thongs and specially men wearing thongs.

My further internet search (quora, etc) really shocked me that people are so concerned and opinionated about a tiny piece of clothing. I would totally understand if the tiny clothing exposes genitals. People are giving reasons that "I don't want to see cellulite and hairy bum", "I don't want to see the shape of genitals, it's gross". Really? Is this the reason? Would you want someone to wear a full face mask because they have acne? Would you want people to wear full length trousers, because you don't like too much hair on their legs?

I think ignorance is bliss. Before knowing about this, I was considering thongs as yet another underwear type. If I don't hesitate wearing briefs in front of my friends, family and neighbors, why would I hesitate wearing thongs in front of them (unless I am shy about showing more skin, which I am not). But now, knowing that people will make strong opinions, I am a bit hesitant wearing it in front of anyone apart from my gf.

What do you think how other people perceive men wearing thongs? My research is mostly internet driven, but I guess you all have real life experiences. This little innocent piece of clothing is getting attention for all wrong reasons - while people should talk about how comfy/uncomfy the structure is or the back string is, but they are talking about "I want to unsee the thought of men wearing thongs"  >:(

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General Discussion / Re: New to thongs. Need guidance
« on: March 25, 2021, 05:59:45 AM »
Thanks for reassurance. I am anxiously waiting to receive ikingsky, Olaf Benz and Bruno Banani thongs tomorrow.

Will share my experience.

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In the Bedroom / Re: Who wears thongs during sex?
« on: March 25, 2021, 04:59:16 AM »
I am normally naked, but love my gf to keep her thongs on during foreplay and few minutes into sex. Since last few months, I have been also wearing thongs during foreplay, as my gf gifted me those and says it's an eye candy and turn on for her. So as long as she likes it, what's there to lose :) :)

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General Discussion / Re: New to thongs. Need guidance
« on: March 24, 2021, 05:51:43 AM »
Thanks Kraig. I have already ordered Olaf Benz. Eagerly waiting for it. Any other recommendations for brands or websites that sell in Europe?

Thanks kiyoothong. Yes, I think that's the reason I found HOM thong uncomfortable, because although it looked like a thong, but had a thin string at the back. I really liked the back of Doreanse 1216 thong. The back strap just slipped perfectly inside my cheeks without any annoyance (but was bothered by almost negligible front space).


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General Discussion / Re: New to thongs. Need guidance
« on: March 23, 2021, 11:25:39 AM »
Thanks for all encouraging responses.

I am glad to hear that it's not just me, but a very common struggle for most of the folks to find the perfect thong. I am all up for trial and error.

Wow. I never really thought about the fabric of underwear (you may call me ignorant). But, to your question RCBlue, I checked my undies and all my briefs are made of either Cotton or Cotton + elastene. So, I guess I should look for Cotton thongs.

Regarding these brands, I am able to find Olaf Benz, iKingsy and few others on Amazon. Btw, I live in Germany (moved here few years ago), so I am not sure if most of other recommended brands are niche American brands because I couldn't find on Amazon DE.

I have already added ikingsy, Olaf Benz and Bruno Banani thongs in my cart. Will place the order today :)

Another thing I am looking for in thongs is that they should look  smart and sober (I know I am being picky), as I want something that I could potentially wear as a daily underwear. I and my gf sometimes walk around the apartment in our Tees and undies. With briefs, I have to keep on adjusting the front. I actually liked the look of ikingsy and Olaf Benz and hope they would be perfect for everyday wear.

Regarding the partner supporting this, I really appreciate my gf for this. In fact, we both are open with this. I often compliment on her new undies. Initially, she recommended me to try boxers. She knows that I liked thongs when she gifted me but am unable to find comfy models. Few days ago, she was searching on the internet for "most comfortable men's thongs" and was recommending me few styles. We started looking at those together - liked a few, while laughed at others.

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General Discussion / New to thongs. Need guidance
« on: March 22, 2021, 12:49:01 PM »
Hi everyone!

I am quite new to men thongs. I know this is a very long post, but I really need some guidance. But before that it's important that I share the background with you all. I wore my first thong around 6 months ago.

Background

I am/was a regular briefs wearer. An year ago I didn't know that men thongs even exist.

Being a regular briefs wearer doesn't mean I am satisfied with that style. I felt most briefs style too restrictive in the front area. It gives support, but squish the stuff too much. Same problem with boxer briefs. Once I tried boxers, but didn't like the unsupported dangling feel. Since then I thought briefs might be the best that is available for men. That was a compromise.

How it started?

My girlfriend wears thongs occasionally. It was always a turn on for me to see her in thong, but I had no slightest clue that man thongs exist.

6 months ago, she gave me a package and asked me to wear it, and she herself went to the other room to change. I opened the package. It had 2 tiny underwear in red and black. I thought it's women's thongs, but noticed the pouch in front. I wore it without thinking too much as I was focusing more on the action that was gonna happen next.

After the sex, both of us normally wear our underwear to go to sleep. So, I wore that thong and felt really good in the front (while a bit odd feeling in the back). First thing I thought was "Why can't they make normal underwear front like this?" I asked her why did she gift me this, she said "Just like men find them sexy on women, women too find them hot on men".

The Eureka moment!

After few days, while getting ready in the morning, I realized I have ran out of clean underwear. Then, I thought to give that thong a try. After first hour of adjusting the back strap, I almost forgot I was wearing any underwear, while my stuff felt relaxed, supported and not squished. I smiled and thought - I found the most comfortable underwear! Why I didn't know about this? Why I never see this underwear type in stores or online? Why I always thought Thong is a women thing? When I wore it, it didn't feel feminine at all. In fact, it felt manlier than a brief or boxer brief because of the front pouch. It was like a revelation for me.

But, eh..

I started wearing those thongs for 2-3 hours a day. After 4-5 days, I started feeling a bit uncomfortable in the back. I realized the crack has got itchy and sensitive. While I liked the support and freedom in front, the fabric made few other things worse (sweaty junk). I realized that these thongs were made of some synthetic material (nylon or polyester) and it was hot.

I was very disappointed, because as I felt that I found the perfect underwear style for me, I realized it was far from it. Are men thongs a novelty product only? Don't they make it for everyday wear?

The research begins

I opened Amazon and started searching for thongs. I must say I was pleasantly surprised to see men thongs available online. I wamted to avoid cheaper ones, so I ordered a HOM and a Cocksox. When the package arrived, I got disappointed again as the HOM was restrictive in front and it just had a thread in the back, while the Cocksox was pushing my stuff too much in the front.

I ordered a Doreanse, and it was also too tight in front. Well, I had thought that thongs have a comfy front by design, but I was so wrong.

I then started googling about men thongs to understand if men thongs are actually perceived as comfortable daily underwear, and I only heard such great things focusing on comfort and style. So, where did I go wrong?

Then, I came across this forum. I realized there are a lot of experienced thong wearers here. So, I wanted to understand what's the key to find a perfect thong? Do you guys find thongs comfortable? Should I look for a specific brand? Specific fabric?

I could have given off easily, but I still believe that the structure of a thong makes it a perfect underwear. I just don't realise where is it going wrong.

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