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Other Sites / Reddit commnity in Spanish
« on: May 17, 2021, 02:16:31 PM »
For those whose language is the Spanish or speak it, I've created a community in that social network.

https://www.reddit.com/r/tangamasculino

¡¡Que vivan los tangas!!

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Questions and Opinions / Re: Massaged in a thong (Male Masseur)
« on: March 21, 2021, 02:56:26 PM »
When you go to a physiotherapist, sometimes you must use a once-wear thong. That's the only moment when we men can use thongs without being considered freaks.

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Other Favorites / Re: Boxer shorts
« on: December 12, 2020, 02:52:37 PM »
Kind of funny that this is posed in ‘other favorites’ but basically a place to hate on boxers!  Haha!

The reason I included this in other favorites while I don't like this underwear is because there isn't an off-topic section.


I wore them a bit in high school...it was the thing.  But now i only have thongs and small bikinis to wear...i WOULD wear boxers but as its been said, maybe to sleep in if there’s a fun/sexier cut?
In that case you're right. If you don't use it as underwear is cool to sleep in summer with a thong or bikini inside.


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Other Favorites / Re: Off topic?) Out of the norm clothes
« on: December 12, 2020, 02:49:34 PM »
This is already a post. You can see my answer there.

http://mensthongforum.com/index.php?topic=696.0

Well, I created this thread inspired by yours. As my English is not very good I thought yours was only for trousers and I created a more general thread. The reason I've included the x-dressing is because I've read some threads where there's who use man panties and even women panties that fit good in some men.

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Other Favorites / Off topic?) Out of the norm clothes
« on: November 01, 2020, 02:42:14 PM »
What kind of clothes (or footwear and any wear) do you like wearing and are not common in men. Tell it here, from something there's male version  like it happens with thongs (or even more accepted clothes but also not very common in men) to crossdressing or beyond if any.

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Questions and Opinions / Re: Straight men who wear thongs.
« on: November 01, 2020, 02:40:11 PM »
One of my close friends is straight and it’s his birthday soon, was thinking of buying him a thong.  We have chatted about almost everything and are really open with each out.  He’s even told me about his fetish for using butt plugs... do you think buying him a thong would be good or bad idea?

I think it's a good idea. As you tell, he looks open-minded, so that gift may be a begining to wear thongs for him.

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Getting Started / Re: How it all started
« on: October 24, 2020, 02:52:24 PM »
A piece of clothing doesn't define your sexuality, it's 100% true. And to be gay is as normal as be heterosexual, so if it defined you (it doesn't actually), you'd be also a normal person; another problem of prejudices of thongs are the prejudices of homophobia as I've read in another post. http://mensthongforum.com/index.php?topic=659.msg7785#msg7785

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Introductions / Re: Hello from Chile, South America
« on: October 24, 2020, 02:45:06 PM »
Hola JustARandom. Me alegra ver a alguien más que hable español por aquí.

Hi JustARandom. I'm glad here's one spanish speaker more.

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General Discussion / Re: The son wants a thong.
« on: October 11, 2020, 12:34:40 AM »
I gave here a similar answer (http://mensthongforum.com/index.php?topic=172.msg6372#msg6372). If girls of his age use to wear thongs, it's not too early form him but if it's still early for his same age girls, it's also early for him.
 
What you say about teeneager cruelness is sadly true, so I would not recommend to wear thongs in his high school and even if he does, I think you don't have to throw his boxers, just add thongs as a more underwear option.

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Man Thong Pictures / Re: Anyone know what brand this Thong is?
« on: September 06, 2020, 12:10:47 AM »
I think it's similar to this Joe Snyder mini cheek https://aliexpress.com/item/32872175151.html

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General Discussion / Don't hear them Pinocho, wear what you want
« on: July 06, 2020, 01:43:57 PM »
I don't know if this is the correct section, sorry in advance if this is not.

In this clip of Shreck 2 Pinocho's friends bully him because he's wearing a thong. Despite the suposed age of that character is too young to wear thongs (in my opinion), I'd tell him he doesn't have to hear them and wear what he likes and wants.

 https://youtu.be/EI1pJA7CgWs?t=58

Shreck is a very funny film but that scene reproduces the hateful prejudice about men and thongs.

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At the Beach / Re: My beachwear experiences
« on: June 21, 2020, 12:18:55 PM »
I went out to my local beach early yesterday. On my way I got a text from a woman I know asking if I was going to be there. She then texted that she and her friend would be there and asked me to join them. I got there first set up and they arrived shortly after. They both are aware of my swimwear choices and are not only accepting but very much approve of my choice. We were set up in a fairly busy part of the beach. As soon as I took off my short shorts revealing the thong of the day (Buffedbod Hoist thong). I was told that my suit was cute and they very much liked this one. As the day went on we had  some other people join us (family with adult children 18-21 and the wife‘s sister). I went into the water a few times with everyone. All were very open to what I wore, even happy that I was exposing more cheek that any one else on the beach. It was one of the best days I’ve had at the beach in a long time. We were all laughing, telling stories and enjoying the sun. We had several discussions about Nude beaches in America. Had I been to any, yes. What were they like? Where was the closest one? There were a few discussions about swimwear and what people preferred to wear and why. Some the conversation turned a bit risqué, all in good fun.

Very good experience.

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Questions and Opinions / Re: Normalize male thongs
« on: June 20, 2020, 05:46:19 AM »
unfortunately i think the issue is more complicated and tied to so many things, but ultimately the idea and image of masculinity, toxic masculinity and homophobia.

too many straight men thing anything not a boxer is 'panties', and straight male dominated cultures [which is most if not all] tend to think of anything else as "less".

We and culture has to actively work on breaking down those barriers, like intimacy with friends [even I dont hug friends, thats something I have to work through], accepting bodies and nudity as normal and not shameful or sexy, and not judging others. We can do only so much with visibility and our own 'activisim' but it's going to take a culture shift, which is slow. and unfortunately, being more accepting of other people's underwear choices and expanding one's own is super low priority, in the state of the world right now :(

one thing might be to actively ask retailers corporate offices to offer more variety in their stores, offer accessible brands with large ranges maybe, to encourage them to give folks better access and instant gratification compared to online shopping. I know many retailers are losing the battle to Amazon and online shopping, and may be open to suggestions?


I agree a lot with you, it's true that gender stereotypes and homophobia are part of this problem. If you use are heterosexual and use thongs you're going to be considered gay -even worse, they consider to be gay as something bad.

Obviously, the end of homophobia is much more important than the end of prejudices of thongs for men, but I think there is more, there is less homophobia than years ago and prejudices in thongs are the same. I think many times gay people break gender stereotypes and heterosexual people after breaking those stereotypes begin to do what gays began before to do but I've got the impression that thongs are seen by gay people as heterosexual people do. I asked something relative to that when I started in this forum (http://mensthongforum.com/index.php?topic=485.0) and most of answers were "similar to heterosexual men". The idea of that thread was due to a conversation with a gay friend who I wanted to tell (because I thought he had got less prejudices) I use thongs sometimes and when the conversation was about that, he said that's freak so I didn't tell him.

PS: In your country men don't hugh or dont wear briefs? That's very curious for me.

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Questions and Opinions / Normalize male thongs
« on: June 02, 2020, 10:01:39 PM »
Which actions do you think underwear brands should do to normalize male thongs? (with this I don't mean thongs would become in the most worn underwear by men, just not to be considered as a freak if you wear it).
I think they should sell their thongs in physical shops, specially in those shops where youngest potentially wearers buy their clothes and underwear because if they see thongs next to boxer briefs, they would consider thongs as an option more. I think this is important because most of underwear brands offer thongs in their catalogue, but they're only available on the internet and if underwear is usually bought in phisycal shops, only people with special interest is going to buy thongs. Even more, I think the probability to take atention to thongs in a physical shop is higger than in an online shop, specially if thongs are in a different section of the target of buyer.

In my opinion, youngest wearer should have priority for brands because they probably haven't got the same prejudices that people in their 30's or 40's, encore when you're young you do what the group do at that age (the group probably wouldn't have prejudices if they see thongs in shop next to typical male underwear) and thus that market action would be more rentable, which is probaly another reason why it's very difficult to find thongs in a physical shop.

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Other Sites / Re: Other Spandex...but basically underwear sites
« on: April 13, 2020, 10:39:33 AM »
Thank you all for these webs for men who use different underwear. More webs for different underwear for men.

http://forums.the-bottom-drawer.com/ The bottom drawer has got also a forum for thongs and bikinis with a section in Spanish.
https://yousozunga.webnode.es/ In Spanish, a sunga/zunga web.

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